You’ve lost your girlfriend, huh? Don’t sweat it. Even men in prehistoric times had difficulties getting and keeping women without saying or doing something stupid. But here we are now, in whatever year this is, and we as men still cannot keep a woman from leaving them because we, as men, are generally dumb when it comes to relationships. If you really, truly believe that your girlfriend is the love of your life and you want to settle down and start a family with her then by all means, continue reading.

How to get your girlfriend back without scaring her away? First and foremost, bombarding her with phone calls, text messages, emails, voicemails and cologne covered love letters will scare a girl away nine times out of ten before she decides to come to her senses and rekindle your relationship. Limit your attempts at contacting her to only once a day, at a time when you know she can talk. Don’t call while she’s at work or sleeping. If she doesn’t pick up, leave a cool and collective message and give her 48 hours to respond. If she doesn’t, try again. But remember, eventually if you have no success, then maybe it’s time for another approach.

How to get your girlfriend back without giving up what you want? Once you are able to communicate with her, you must fix the problems you two had without making fake promises or expecting false hopes. Perhaps the breakup fight was about sex, money, commitment, work, infidelity or just a slip of the tongue. Whatever the case, make sure you are not promising something you cannot live with. For example, if she cheated on you and you are still bitter, don’t tell her that you forgive her. You cannot have your relationship be fixed on a lie.

How to get your girlfriend back with simple solutions? What happened when you two first began to date? Did you always bring her a red rose every morning? Did you tell her you loved her everyday? Did you two always take a walk in the park every Sunday? Chances are you two did something when you were still blind in love that you no longer do because you have become accustomed and maybe even bored with each other. Try to recreate the things you used to do or try to start new traditions. If she sees that you are trying so hard to bring back what was once a great part of her life, she may regret slamming that door in your face.

Alright, so these were just three very simple but not commonly used techniques for men to get a former girlfriend back. How to get your girlfriend back is a question that has no exact answer that cannot be found in an encyclopedia but life experiences of men all over the world. If these tips help for you, pass them along to other men and keep the dream alive inside of every man.