How To Get Your Girlfriend Back |
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People lose their girlfriends for many
reasons. There are even more ways to get
a girlfriend back. However, there are
some questions you should ask yourself
before endeavoring to get your
girlfriend back. Was the breakup really
entirely your fault? Do you really want
her back? Is she still interested in
you, or has she already moved on?
Frankly speaking, is there any real
chance of her coming back?
Unfortunately, general incompatibility
is one likely reason for a breakup that
is precipitated by a single major
incident. And making moves to get your
girlfriend back is a commitment unto
itself; the relationship will probably
change drastically after you really go
through the 'getting-her-back' grind.
Generally, you should be ready to take
some criticism because, depending on
whose fault the breakup was, there is
every chance of a major argument. And
most important, beware that a
“trophy-hunting” mentality generally
will get you nowhere. You have to want
her for who she is – not for the people
to whom you can show her off.
In the final analysis, if you think she’s worth trying to convince, then there are many ways of patching things up. Apology cards, or turning up at her home with a box of chocolates to apologize is a very acceptable strategy and often yields impressive results. If something as simple as this does the trick, consider yourself lucky: you got off easy. If this doesn’t work, and you still want to go through with trying to get your girlfriend back, more comprehensive methods are required. One tasteful way to try to get a girlfriend back is to call her and invite her for a lunch date every couple of months. During these lunch dates, do not discuss anything heavy, or what came to pass since the last lunch date. This keeps you in her mind and sight and recognizes you as an option in her social and love life. And then there are the blatantly manipulative approaches. For example, the combination of your being okay with your girlfriend leaving, along with her knowledge that you have started dating other women, is often enough for her to come back. For some women, as long as you are entirely hers, it is all a dull and drab game. But as soon as the other woman makes an entry into your world, you become a trophy to be had. In fact, you will be surprised at how different his ex- or current girlfriend behaves after being introduced to an attractive office secretary. After a breakup and during a patch-up, it isn't exactly necessary to hound out the reason of the breakup. It might have been either party’s fault. What matters is that you display a sincere desire to have her back.
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