In this article, we’re going to talk about the common mistakes most
all men make when trying to get their girlfriend back. Pay close
attention because you’re probably doing at least some of these
things without even knowing it. If you want her back bad enough,
you’ll read on.
- Telling her you love her over and over again.
Don’t act like a little puppy dog and beg for her back.
She’ll just lose respect for you and you’ll only end up pushing
her further away from you than she already is. A lot of guys
thing the reason she left them is because they didn’t verbalize
their love enough when in fact this is usually never true.
- Buying her flowers and other such gifts.
Bribery isn’t going to work when getting your girlfriend back.
That’s actually how women interpret it you know. As bribery and
they think it’s pathetic. Save the flowers for the relationship;
not the breakup.
- Acting depressed and sad in order to make her feel
sorry for you.
Acting like a little puppy dog isn’t going to win you any
points either. This just makes you look desperate and thus
pushes her further and further away from you. Man up and pull
yourself together.
- Generally being overly nice in order to “win her
over”.
Again, acting overly nice will be interpreted by your ex as
you being a little puppy dog. I’m not saying you should suddenly
start acting like a jerk (that won’t get you anywhere either).
There is a line to be drawn and generally kissing up to your ex
girlfriend will only cause her to lose respect for you.
- Using guilt to get her back. Kids, money, etc.
I see a lot of guys trying to manipulate their ex girlfriends
with kids, money and other such things. You can make her feel as
guilty as you want but that will not get back the one thing you
need in droves (attraction). This type of behavior will only
make her resent you all the more.
- Attempting to persuade her with reason and logic to
get back with you.
Us men are very logical creatures.
We think that everything can be fixed logically. Attempting to
persuade your ex girlfriend to go back out with you (for
whatever reason) will only push her away. She doesn’t want to
hear logic, she wants to feel emotion. Emotion is the key.
- Doing absolutely nothing.
And finally, doing absolutely nothing will definitely ensure
your failure. There are very specific steps you can follow to
get your ex girlfriend back. These steps are based on advanced
female psychology.
To sum everything up, you can’t use cheap manipulation that women
can see right though when attempting to get your ex back. Buying her
presents, using guilt, making her feel sorry for you, telling her
you love her (with an agenda), using logic and reason (when women
will only respond to emotion). Don’t feel bad though; almost every
guy going through a breakup does these things. There are plenty of
things you CAN do however.