Love... its a tricky thing for us guys.

[MeTHoD-X]

This is just a random rant about something personal I'm experiencing now, and have in the past also.



It's funny how love works and how women treat guys who are in love with them. Everything starts out fine because you don't really care about the outcome of the relationship. Your not really in love with her yet, so she tries her best to win you over. It's like shes obsessed with getting you to pair bond with her. Then, after her hard work has paid off, and you DO start to fall in love and have deep feeling for her, everything changes. She begins to act unloving towards you, bitchy and generally a mean, uncaring person.

This is a problem for me because I'm not a submissive guy by nature. I can't just give in and kiss ass trying to make her "love" me again. So bitterness starts to build up on both sides and the downfall of the relationship begins.

From my experience, women can only be in love with a guy who isn't totally in love with them back. Once the guy is in love with them, the women falls out of love. Look at Brittany Spears and Kevin Federline. Why do you think Britney loves Kevin so much? Because he just doesn't give a shit. Every guy on the planet would kiss her ass and bend over backwards to get her approval, except Kevin. If he actually loved her, she wouldn't want him.



Since this is a Church community, I figure this would be a good place to get all this off my chest.

[disciple]

This is just a random rant about something personal I'm experiencing now, and have in the past also.

'It's funny how love works and how women treat guys who are in love with them....'

Since this is a Church community, I figure this would be a good place to get all this off my chest.

Form the 'rant' I am guessing that the trip to the movies, the other night, didn't go so well?
Funny thing with finding someone you think you love, you spend more time with them. They spend more time with you and you both get to know each other; too well. You will have many such experiences before you find a partner who will both: encourage and tolerate your eccentricities. When you find such a person (if you are lucky enough) hold on to them, compromise on occasion, show interest in them on an intellectual and emotional level and don't settle for anything less than you deserve.
In the meantime keep on fishing, there will be some that (hopefully) you throw straight back; as they are under the legal limit. there will be those that you put on a line to use as bait for bigger fish and those that you take home and put on the stove for dinner. Then there will be the one that you build a really big tank for.
The point is: fuck her! she didn't deserve you and in time when she has subjected herself to an abusive relationship she will wonder what you are doing, she may even call. You will be extremely adult about the hole thing and will not gloat; NOT.

[SAVAGE]

The question is what is love?

Emotion, is emotion good, generally no it clouds judgement...so to heck with love.

[Fallen Hero]

The question is what is love?

Emotion, is emotion good, generally no it clouds judgement...so to heck with love.
Love is a warm fuzzy feeling some people give you.

[Googles Bitch]

Sorry to hear that you're having trouble with your girl.Well, you're right to a degree - from a female perspective some girls can be more trouble than their worth. But it's not your problem, it's hers! She either doesn't (yet) know what she wants or could be a drama queen who sabbotages the relationship so she can then play the "poor me" card. Or there could be 100 other reasons. I think that you've got the right idea about not playing her game. Stay staunch and be yourself, 'cause there really are chicks out there who won't play games in the mean time just enjoy the experience! Oh also I'd say the Brittany thing is more like "Birds of a white trash trailer-park flock together"I know - it doesn't rhyme but you get the gist?!

[MeTHoD-X]

I'll tell you exactly what love is.

Love is an addiction of the most powerful kind. You can tell your in love with someone when you start to go into remission upon being removed from said person you are in love with. You cant think straight and you feel dizzy, among other things. That's when you know your in love with somebody.

[Fallen Hero]

Hmmmm damn well I love some one then.. But I knew that I guess.

[SAVAGE]

I'll tell you exactly what love is.

Love is an addiction of the most powerful kind. You can tell your in love with someone when you start to go into remission upon being removed from said person you are in love with. You cant think straight and you feel dizzy, among other things. That's when you know your in love with somebody.

Never happened to me.

[MeTHoD-X]

I'll tell you exactly what love is.

Love is an addiction of the most powerful kind. You can tell your in love with someone when you start to go into remission upon being removed from said person you are in love with. You cant think straight and you feel dizzy, among other things. That's when you know your in love with somebody.

Never happened to me.

Lucky. You don't want it to.

[Googles Bitch]

I'll tell you exactly what love is.

Love is an addiction of the most powerful kind. You can tell your in love with someone when you start to go into remission upon being removed from said person you are in love with. You cant think straight and you feel dizzy, among other things. That's when you know your in love with somebody.

I know what you're saying - but I also think that the best kind of love is one when you're with somebody 'cause they compliment you - not complete you. But it can be so powerful when you feel that way for somebody else -both good and bad. Believe or not, they've discovered that it's also chemical. You have those feelings for about 2 months, then the levels slowly drop in your body!Something to do with dopamine - I'll have to Google it!

[Nanashi]

I love Doritos... But only certain kinds.

/sigh

[MeTHoD-X]

The question is what is love?

Emotion, is emotion good, generally no it clouds judgement...so to heck with love.

I agree with you. Totally. But I always tell myself that when I get into a relationship. In the beginning I'm strong and I don't really care too much about the outcome of the relationship. But then over time you start to fall for the person. That's when everything changes, because she can smell the change in you. That's when she rips your heart out with her bare fucking hands. She owns you.

[Nanashi]

She owns you.

Amen.

[SAVAGE]

The question is what is love?

Emotion, is emotion good, generally no it clouds judgement...so to heck with love.

I agree with you. Totally. But I always tell myself that when I get into a relationship. In the beginning I'm strong and I don't really care too much about the outcome of the relationship. But then over time you start to fall for the person. That's when everything changes, because she can smell the change in you. That's when she rips your heart out with her bare fucking hands. She owns you.

Never happened to me...but I am a little sociopathic by nature.

[Nanashi]

Just a random bump, 'cause i'm going through the same shit.

'felt like being emo about it, and telling you all. ^_^ Cheers!

[MeTHoD-X]

I guess it's time I updated this...

I ended up getting back together with Jess (my girlfriend). She gave me a drunken phone call a few weeks back, telling me how sorry she was and how much she missed me. We talked for a bit and I told her to call me when she was sober. So she did and we ended up meeting up the next night at a mutual friends birthday party. We didn't drink, and we ended up having a great time together. Long story short, shit ended up working out for us. we talked about what was wrong with our relationship and we went about trying to fix things.

Just a random bump, 'cause i'm going through the same shit.

'felt like being emo about it, and telling you all. ^_^ Cheers!

I hope everything ends up working out for you Nanashi. I found that the key to working things out between Jess and I was re-discovering what I did to initially attract her, and her re-discovering what initially attracted me to her. We thought about it, and did those things again. Seems to have worked thus far.